By Peter Jeff
The Leadership Mints Guy
Here’s an idea to enhance your job performance . Reading time: 3:21.
Imagine feeling sheer ecstasy!!! Fully clothed. On the job. Every day. Drug free.
Ecstasy. The word stems from the Greek ‘ex stasis’, meaning “to stand outside of yourself.” And that ability may well be the differentiating factor of humanity as Eric Newton writes in his book The Arts of Man : “One of the basic differences between man and the animals is his power to stand outside himself.”
Exercising that differentiating factor –standing outside yourself –is a key leadership skill that is often undermined in wanna-be leaders too wrapped up in themselves and their own egos and ideas.
Real leaders know that when you can’t or won’t step outside of yourself you can’t appreciate anything. You have no real sense of comparison, no real basis for perspective, no real understanding of value.
That’s why the most effective leaders know that without ecstasy, they can become too self-absorbed, too self-righteous, and too all-knowing. The most effective leaders know: they DON’T know.
They know they need to let go of their preconceived notions and get lost in something other than themselves, let their feelings climb outside of themselves. In sheer ecstasy. No wonder the drug culture confiscated and corrupted the sense of ecstasy that real leaders enjoy without drugs.
Real Leaders Step Away From Their Egos
Real leaders can step out from behind their macho armor long enough to become fascinated with something besides themselves like the curves in calligraphy a la Steve Jobs to stimulate new thinking.
Real leaders’ ability to step outside of themselves is critical in sparking leaders to learn, to grow, and to experience something new.
After all the Spirit of Ecstasy is clearly evinced in The Flying Lady’s face to the the wind, her arms outstretched, her sleeves billowing likes wings. The Flying Lady evokes the breath-taking ecstasy in the movie Titanic when Jack and Rose are stretched-out and “flying” at the head of the cruise ship.
From that vantage point – on top of a hood of a luxury vehicle or at the head of a cruise ship– leaders can more readily appreciate –“naively” and freshly” again and again the basic goods of life with awe, pleasure, wonder and even ecstasy,” as psychologist and author Abraham Maslow wrote in his book Motivation and Personality.
Indeed the most creative and innovative leaders live every day—every hour —as naively and freshly as they can. Beyond their own limitations in experience or expertise. Beneath the awe and wonder around them. And always, besides themselves. In sheer ecstasy!!!
Step out away from your ideas to keep your leadership thinking in mint condition.
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